30 May 10 - darling,i m proud of you~

gd time really flies. the past 48hrs could be considered one of my happiest (and most tiring) days.. my darling had been in town, taking tedious effort just to spend long weekend with me. mind you, he did not have long weekend (ie vesak holiday) hence he took his leave just for my long weekend.. if you are saying, hkg-sin 3.5hr flight is not big deal, you are TOTALLY overlooking at the 5 WEARISOME HOURS of travelling from rural shenzhen to hkg! you know how tiring can 4hrs flight be, let alone travelling on public buses through customs after customs!! do you know how troublesome custom checks can be?!

i really appreciate my darling very much.. this is his 2nd effort to spend long weekend with me, so i wont be left alone in holidays (remember my CNY long week). *yes, it can be quite affecting when people are celebrating while i m alone* that's why i really appreciate my darling.. even though it's not in his convenience, he took all the effort to make the fatiguing travel just for me.. i really love my darling *have i ever told you that he's totally worthy of my love? :)* even though he's totally exhausted and his body under flu attack, he kept up with all my friends' meetings and gatherings.. thank you, darling, thank you for your love~

here's his nightmare schedule for past days~
day 0 - arrived 0000hr, managed to clear the customs at 0045hr. he was so tired when he saw me, even though he didnt admit.. first sign of flu came swiftly..
day 1 - he only managed to rest for few hrs before my 'early-bird' family started to wake each other up for breakfast.. the day started as early as 10am and it dragged into 1am! trust me, i didnt plan it that way for i knew he will be tired after flight..neither did i plan for the family ktv which just went on despite my constant complaint and obvious reluctant expression.. then the seafood dinner *u cant imagine how much that freaking feast cost?! i am still trying to recover from the shock~* immediately after dinner, a last-minute gathering call from my ex-boss in AUO, which i agreed to meet with such spontaneous that even surprised myself. *ok, i have my personal agenda for being such sport, taking a HUGE risk between spending time with darling and social entertainment* nevertheless i was so proud of my darling who didnt expressed any sign of displeasure (and tiredness) when they met, although he was so totally annoyed over my 'instinctive' decision..
day 2 - managed to catch up with some rest till 10am.. a triple-date brunch with gwen n jenny *they are SO INSISTENCE on this meeting! talk about peer pressure~!* and the day continued between orchard and suntec, before attending wedding dinner at clarke quay
this is the first time my darling attended a singaporean wedding dinner, and as i expected - he was kinda taken aback.. trust me, this is really a very 'singaporean' dinner with traditional 'yum-seng' and all the sobataging drinks.. fun, yes it was but it was indeed an eye-opener to him. all in all, i am so proud of him again for staying through the night with smiles on his face (he can be really listless and grouchy when he is tired)
day 3 - flu is not leaving him alone.. yet he has to make the tedious trip back after a short morning rest *finally we have a normal morning at home at our own timing!!* 

darling, i love you.. i promise i wont tire you out like this again.. i know you just want to spend time with me, just the 2 of us, so do i.. 

so my friends, please regard my darling as normal friend from now on.. no more 'i must see him' request bcos he is my boyfriend.. spare my darling from all the heat of singapore weather + travelling.. he just wants to spend a normal weekend, resting with me~