who says 'Marley and me' is a romance story? to be very honest it's not even a story on dogs but it is a GREAT AWESOME reality on LIFE COMMITMENT! i'm not even saying this as a dog-lover.. it's really a must-watch for all guys! teach you about what is family building, what is family stress and relational bonding.. and it's a real-life account from John Grogan himself! real life experience to have what it takes to be a MAN!.. i cant help thinking what a great man he is - to love marley, despite all the work, ambition and family stress that are mounting on him.. all the acts of love to his wife and to marley.. a man of love and responsibility..
i cant imagine what is it like when it's time for my hugo.. i tell you i will be 3times more depressed than my depression.. my hugo.. no one understands why he chose me to love, but he just loves me with all his heart, out of so many people in the family.. he knows my heart, my 'commands' even before i speak.. he knows i dont like him to beg for food, so he will not step into the kitchen when people are eating.. he knows only i can feed him so he wont beg others for food.. he knows when i'm tired so he will just sit quietly close to me on the sofa... when i'm happy, he is the first person i'd like to share my joy.. and my tears.. when i was sick and even during my depression, he never left me alone.. (trust me, these are without training.. i've never sent my son to any dog training or whatsoever).. despite his small size. he has a great heart of love! without him on my bed, i cant sleep (when i have to travel on business/leisure, i make sure my laptop is connected throughout the night, by my bed.. so i can always be ard for hugo).. at night, i just have to hear his 'snoring' while i pat him to sleep..
no words can tell you how much i love my hugo.. i know when he's not feeling well, when his leg hurt or has an ant in it.. when he wants to be alone.. when he needs to play around.. or even when he just want to be lazy to sleep a little more (he has total access to my room - he can take his time to wake up, though i need to fence up my room in my absence).. i know he does not like me to give some of attention to him while doing something else.. frankly, he is my boyfriend or even 'husband'.. he takes such great care of me, protects me and loves me with all his heart.. no matter how tiring it is to have a 'single mother' lifestyle of sendng and picking him up from his school everyday, it's worth every ounce of my energy.. i dun expect anyone of you to understand but be gracious to accept the love and bonding we share..
have to admit there are times when i'm struggling to balance my social life and him.. very often, i find myself forgo those social outings for hugo.. i know he is anxiously waiting for me at home.. my mum says he is always looking out for my return... and i'm the only person he'll play with and smile to.. trust me, even if i'm doing nothing at home( not a fav thing of workaholic) or missing out on my shopping and socialising, i know my time with hugo is well spent.. i love my hugo.
no words can tell you how much i love my hugo.. i know when he's not feeling well, when his leg hurt or has an ant in it.. when he wants to be alone.. when he needs to play around.. or even when he just want to be lazy to sleep a little more (he has total access to my room - he can take his time to wake up, though i need to fence up my room in my absence).. i know he does not like me to give some of attention to him while doing something else.. frankly, he is my boyfriend or even 'husband'.. he takes such great care of me, protects me and loves me with all his heart.. no matter how tiring it is to have a 'single mother' lifestyle of sendng and picking him up from his school everyday, it's worth every ounce of my energy.. i dun expect anyone of you to understand but be gracious to accept the love and bonding we share..have to admit there are times when i'm struggling to balance my social life and him.. very often, i find myself forgo those social outings for hugo.. i know he is anxiously waiting for me at home.. my mum says he is always looking out for my return... and i'm the only person he'll play with and smile to.. trust me, even if i'm doing nothing at home( not a fav thing of workaholic) or missing out on my shopping and socialising, i know my time with hugo is well spent.. i love my hugo.
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listen to this.. it's one of the unforgetable songs i've heard.. i cried at first hearing..
i still cry every time i hears ..
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