SINGLE LADIES ONLY> have you ever how it would be like to 'settle down'? another phrase of life?
honestly i do not have any excitement or fireworks when it happened. in fact, half of j was wondering if i've said the wrong thing; another half was knocking serious senses into my head. what must be done for me to appreciate someone who really loves me so much, someone who stays firm in his decision despite my pushing and cold rejection treatments, someone who understands me and my godforsaken history of love hurts.. this question raved in my mind when guoqing asked that question again..
u know how uncomfortable i was when he's in singapore, how i dread to face his affections hence ignored his existence.. yet through it all, he endured the freezing treatment and decided to wait no matter what happens, as long as i'm happy and hurt-free. frankly, i felt really real bad after his return. afterall i know loving is hurtful, not to mention loving someone who had up-front rejected and kept giving cold treatment..
perhaps everything is indeed in His plan - i dont understand why the sudden 'urge' to go taiwan for Christmas week. the urge just came SO SUDDEN that my colleagues were shocked. my temp staff - jiaxin took the liberty of being my secretary to search for flights and even arranged the timing.. everything happened so swift and smooth that i actually got a very good itinerary WITHIN 5MINS, DEPARTING IN 48HRS, at a reasonable price! i was still in amazement when i saw the e-tickets. that was really very impulsive purchase~! yet, somehow i know i ve to make this trip... and as if it's inevitable, i spent all these time with him, to know him better..
after all the heart-to-heart talks on our lifestyles, perspectives, differences and expectations, i didnt realise i'm so much like him (he's older).. we are just big kids refusing to grow up. of course, he really hid his maturity well behind those cheeky face and witty (lame) words. when i thought i knew him well for 16yrs, he surprised me with his maturity and his sensible chain of thoughts and sensitivity in care. *guys,pls dont be too cheeky* what really hit me in my face was his firm willingness to wait for my recovery, his piety love for my whole family and his really-thought-through mind on knowing what,who,how he wants in life. it's very clear n organised, hard to believe they're from the persistent 'annoying' truehearted admirer whom i ignored weeks ago.. he really knows what he wants in life and how.. in that instant, i feel and i know my drifting boat can finally rest at its dock.
even when my logical self refuted the peaceful joy based on my 5Cs requirement, i felt a sudden enlightenment that he's the bridge i've been looking for. his love for me shows him the way to Christ my Lord, and his piety love will open the door to reach my family. i'm not suggesting of using my marriage to evangelise *i'm NOT that evangelical, ok~!* but the realisation just dawned, yes really dawned upon me like sunrise in the dark.. somehow, the whole sunrise picture just flood in my mind. somehow, nothing else is that important anymore.. i know we'll face it together, i really mean TOGETHER~
yes, i'm going to be Mrs Yeh soon..
老公就是要找這樣，女生一定很幸福 葉 國慶
ReplyDelete1：無論何時何地都會很親切的叫我寶貝或者親愛的。 Y
2：不管多忙都會發信息告訴我。他想我。 Y
3：從來不要求我要怎麼怎麼對他好。不希望我受到一點點委屈。 Y
4：閒來無事，陪我聊聊天。談我們的孩子以後叫什麼名字。 Y
5：逛街時，不厭其煩的陪我逛到腳抽筋。還笑嘻嘻的關心我累不累。 Y
6：買衣服。吃飯都會會徵求我的意見。 Y
7：我喜歡的衣服。他會毫不猶豫的幫我買下來。 Y
8：知道我化妝品的牌子。
9：知道我喜歡什麼討厭什麼。 Y
10：會買很多我愛吃的零食給我。捧著零食陪我一起看他並不喜歡的片子，一邊看一邊餵我吃零食。 Y
11：我的生日，情人節或者什麼紀念日總會買禮物給我。
12：偶爾會給我個小驚喜。 Y
13：散步時，會和我十指相扣，牽著我過馬路。 Y
14：不抽煙。不喝酒。外出應酬也會為了我而少喝酒。 Y
15：做的一手好菜，就是不讓我下廚房，說我做飯怎麼不好吃，其實是擔心我被油煙熏到。
16：吃完飯搶著刷碗，埋怨我洗得不干淨。其實是怕我傷到手。 Y
17：為了不讓我做家務，要和我猜拳，我出剪子，他出布。
18：每天都會做好可口的早餐送到我床邊。 Y
19：我睡覺時，會幫我把踢掉的被子蓋好。 Y
20：每天睡覺前會講笑話給我聽。
21：睡的比我晚一點，醒的比我早一點。 Y
22：每天都會重複很多話，讓我煩。其實他只是為了關心笨笨的不會照顧自己的我。 Y
23：總吵著說我這不好那不好。其實在他心裡我是最好的。更喜歡默默的聆聽我的抱怨。 Y
24：每月至少和我鬧一次矛盾，目的是讓我知道。我在他的心裡有多重要。
25：記得我每個月的特殊時期。 Y
26：常對我說：“為了我，不許不開心” 。同樣大的年齡，我永遠比其他人開心和美麗。
27：什麼事情都不會瞞我，包括前女友來找他。因為他相信我。永遠都相信我。
28：有一個知己，而且我熟悉。 Y
29：我的照片隨身帶在身上。
30：是個醋罈子。愛吃醋，但是絕對不會因為吃醋和我鬧不開心。 Y
31：在我面前像個孩子一樣。會在我面前撒嬌。 Y
32：有愛心，會養寵物逗我開心。
33：成熟又不缺乏幽默。和我朋友一起吃飯，他的表現總是讓我很自豪。 Y
34：我做錯事情，總要和我爭論一翻然後他會道歉說“：寶貝我錯了。” Y
35：生氣時絕對不會和我吵架。吵架總是他先認錯。 Y
36：吵架時絕對不說“分手”二字。 Y
37：吵架時，我說了分手他絕對會努力的哄我，因為他知道我說的是氣話。 Y
38：記憶力很差，但是他對我的承諾，我對他的要求他卻怎麼都不會忘記。 Y
39：愛唱歌，即使五音不全也會為我唱我喜歡聽的歌。 Y
40：很有上進心。 Y
41：有男子漢氣概但是沒有大男子主義。會陪我哭陪我笑。會幫我洗腳。 Y
42：願意在他父母面前說我怎麼怎麼好。 Y
43：知道我和我父母的生日。 Y
44：跟我父母通電話會說：“伯父（伯母）你們放心，我會好好照顧你們家寶貝的......” Y
45：手機24小時開機。確保我任何時候都能找到他。
46：手機上我的號碼是第一個。每次打電話都要求我先掛電話。
47：從來不在乎我的體重是不是增加了。
48：聽到我說減肥，他會做很多好吃的，然後告訴我有我在我就不需要減肥。 Y
49：說不清楚為什麼愛我，愛我什麼，可就是非常愛我。天塌了，他會給我頂著。 Y
50：我問他：“你能愛我永遠嗎？”他會說：“我不敢保證，但是我敢肯定的是，在我生命終結之前，我會一直這麼愛你的。” Y